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Dating 101 for Beginners
July 2, 2018

Dating dynamics are timeless and yet constantly changing at the same time. A list of few simple do’s and dont’s to keep you on the right track for your next date night.

Dating is all about socializing with people. Ideally, online dating begins with a casual greeting and a few chats; however, what happens when you move to the next level? Online dating goes from chatting online to meeting in real life. From strangers to acquaintances and life partners, it gives men and women a lot of scope for growth in their relationships

Here are a few do’s and dont’s to help you sail safe through dating.

Dont’s in dating

  • Never lie about your relationship status to someone you’re dating. Make your intentions clear right from the start to avoid any regret in the future.
  • Never stalk or harass someone you’re dating if they’re not responding to you the way you want. Free will is the key to any healthy relationship.
  • Never dress or behave shabbily when you’re with your dating partner. Put on your best shoes and be well-groomed for your date.
  • Never flirt with your date’s best friend or others while you’re dating someone. Show some integrity, for starters.

Do's in dating

  • Be polite and courteous. Old-fashioned or not, women and men should be treated with mutual respect even if they’re total strangers.
  • Be punctual. Now, this is a tough one but nevertheless, the most important rule of the dating world. Arrive on time for your date or, stay in contact and check on them if you’re going to be late.
  • Plan your date. Simple or exotic, but make a basic plan first. Ask about your date’s special interests. For example, if they’re a foodie or sport enthusiast, then you can plan a date to their likes.
  • Take care of you and your date, in every simple way - as much as you can! You need to value your partner’s trust and act responsibly.

Dating is a wonderful life experience. It only depends on what you make of it. You’ll get more clarity for yourself with each and every experience while dating. So, make that move and take it easy. Happy Dating!

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Online dating Vs. Going on a date: How to stay safe?
July 2, 2018

Safety in online Vs. offline dating is a much-debated topic among men and women. Did you know there are very many ways in which you can ensure your safety while dating online or offline?

Thrilling and thought-provoking, dating has its own set of ups and downs. Either you’re starting off with online dating or meeting up with a new date in real life, a basic security check on your dating partner isn’t off limits. Trust me on this one, it’s better to be cautious first than regret later. At the end of the day, what’s there to lose by checking on people?

How can you stay safe while still taking a plunge into the dating world? Here’s how you can learn.

  • A few dating websites provide advanced features like verified profiles and photos. Websites apply Google reverse image search tool to verify the authenticity of photos shared in dating profiles. So, you can at least be assured the person you see in the photo is for real.
  • Cyber-stalking, anyone? Men and women can read and learn about their dating partner online. Check out their social media profiles, blogs, and even, LinkedIn if you want to know they’re worth the effort.
  • Many dating sites link their user’s profiles to that of their social media profiles as well. Of course, it’s the free will of the profile user to do so. But, it shows that the person is open to share and connect more about themselves on the dating sites.
  • Do you know about the people search sites? They help you run a basic background check on your dating partner. Intelius is a leading people search site, which supports daters to know more about their partners in the real world.
  • The last and the most crucial reminder. Speak to your dating partner in a one-on-one conversation if you’ve any concerns, politely. Nothing is as good as honest communication, especially in relationships.
  • Online dating sites are fun. You can get what you are looking for, if you’re looking in the right place. So, start getting your facts right. Google to find out different options to stay safe while dating online. For example, you can use Google Voice Proxy Number to give a contact number to your online date without revealing your actual phone number. It can help you buy time before you decide on whether to go ahead with the date or not.

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    Top 5 dating tips for men
    July 2, 2018

    Men are great at the art of socializing, no doubts. When it comes to dating life, men become a little too rigid with age-old beliefs and taboos. Men need to accept and let go to better enjoy their dating lives.

    Men and women think and act differently. It’s their unique differences that complements them and makes love interesting. They need to understand and accept the fact that mutual trust, respect, and love are what it takes for a long-lasting relationship.

    Here are a few common rules of the dating book for men.

    • Communicate openly. Be transparent with your partner about yourself. It helps build trust and understanding in the relationship.
    • Respect your partner’s privacy and need to be independent. Accept and appreciate that women are more financially, emotionally, and socially independent for their own good.
    • Value your partner’s time and effort. Everyone works and live on deadlines and right schedules. Still, making time for loved ones is an effort worth cherishing.
    • Make decisions as a team. You and your dating partner needs to agree together or agree to disagree on decisions. It’s the way forward to a healthy relationship.
    • Stop being judgemental about women. We’ve all been there and done that! So, chill and go with the flow in building your relationships.
    • Avoid ‘ex’ conversations. You’re now out in the dating world for a purpose. Stick to it. Make new love bloom with your character and charisma. Speaking about your ‘ex’ will kill the deal before it begins.
    • Let your partner speak. Listen more and show empathy for your woman at all times.
    • Keep your first impression the best one. Take time and effort to look, feel, and be your best self while making first impressions on your date.

    Women adore men who are open for discussions on anything and everything under the sun. Make a little effort a day to bring a smile to your woman’s face. She will reward you with love and respect. Time is more valuable when you spend it for the ones you love and want to build a life with.

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    Top 8 dating tips for women
    July 2, 2018

    Women can’t help but set strong intentions even for a simple visit to the salon. So, how can they not plan and prepare for a date? Women’s rulebook for dating is same and different from that of men. How?

    Dating has its own pros and cons for everyone. Being a woman makes things easier? Well, yes. Women are always the first to lookout for red flags and white lies. You’ve got the skills but, are you aware of them? More often, women need dating tips to just remind them what they already know for themselves in the first place.

    Here are a few reminders for women on dating.

    • A man’s habits are telltale signs of his character. It takes years or even a lifetime to change old habits. So, observe and learn.
    • Ask about his career life to better understand his life goals. Relationship is to women as career is to men.
    • Men who are a little vulnerable are more often empathetic too. It isn’t easy to be vulnerable unless they’re genuine. So, respect!
    • Listen more. Let men speak their heart out. They seldom do. So, be the listener and give them a chance to express themselves more freely.
    • Never judge a man for what he is not. Accept their individuality and simply decide if that works for you. Being bossy or fussy doesn’t serve anything anyway.
    • Be polite and courteous. It’s common for both men and women to be well-mannered and well-groomed for dates.
    • Make the first impression a memorable one. You’ll never know what the future holds for you and your partner. So, always be impressive authentically.
    • Make your first date, a simple one in a coffee shop. Its public, small talk, and you can always prolong or cut short the meeting as you please.

    Women need to be more open to different possibilities in their social life. Take every pain or gain with a pinch of humor. Avoid judging or jumping to conclusions without taking time to think over about people or situations. Don’t invest yourself emotionally unless you’re sure that you and your dating partner have a future to look forward to. So, put on that dating hat and start basking in love. Good luck!

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    Top 10 safety tips for Online Dating
    July 2, 2018

    Dating brings in new opportunities and a great responsibility. It’s everyone’s dream to find their soulmate and to live happily in togetherness. How to keep yourself safe in online dating?

    Dating is a beautiful opportunity for you to meet and connect with people who interest you. It may or may not turn into a lifetime relationship, however, it still gives two people time and space to get to know each other. Dating websites help you reach out to a million prospects across distances who might match your interests.

    In your journey to find your life partner, start your search safe and simple. Online dating gives you a chance to screen and filter people who do not match your moral standards. Make the wise choice!

    How? Here are a few tips for you to stay safe and happy while dating online.

    While you’re chatting online

    • First things first, never share your private details like home address and home phone number. Don’t you think your name, age and maybe, hobbies are all that one needs to know to start with?
    • In your enthusiasm to share about your everyday activities, never update your daily schedules and whereabouts to a total stranger. You cannot be completely sure if they’re from your own neighborhood or not just by chatting online.
    • Read about phishing emails and scams in the news? Be careful when someone is asking for money transfer online over a dating website. Whatever genuine reasons they might give, you cannot risk your safety and privacy at any cost.
    • Stay guarded while you’re on the webcam. Webcam blackmails are highly menacing activities carried over during online dating. Avoid intimacy in front of the webcam to stay safe and secure.
    • Remember, not all online dating websites are trustworthy. Read, research, and review different leading online dating sites before signing up. Check on their privacy settings and other features to ensure safe and smooth online dating experience.

    Similarly, when you’ve moved a step further in your online dating from chatting online to meeting in real life then take extra care of yourself.

    • Inform your family and friends about your date - time and location.
    • Keep your mobile phone handy and in full charge at all times.
    • Stay aware and alert to better understand and connect with your date.
    • Enjoy your drink and keep in check, too. Observe in silence and never give away if you’re suspicious about your dating partner.
    • Always, meet in public and only in public at least for your first few dates.

    Spend quality time with each other during your date. Online dating can develop into lifetime friendship or love, if you make wise choices. Relax and enjoy your date online and offline with a little caution in a corner of your mind.

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